Today
was another Family Dental Day. I trudged to the other side of
town.....well, I drove......though very, very slowly......to the
dentist's office. I'd had a call about ten days ago that a cavity had
been spotted on my x-rays. Since I didn't know where in my mouth the
cavity was, or what parts would be numbed to fill the cavity, hubby
and I decided he would just do a jazz podcast this morning. We didn't
want to commit ourselves to doing the Big Band show podcast when we
didn't know if I would be able to talk when I got home.
I
was completely delighted to have the dentist look at my mouth and
tell me I didn't actually have a cavity. Of course, that meant
instead he intimated that my mouth is aging along with the rest of
me. But since that meant no needles, I was okay with the “aging”
knowledge! The aging process going on inside my mouth is resulting in
more of my teeth being exposed – and what showed as a cavity on the
x-ray was actually a spot where the root of the tooth had started
being exposed. He did put a bonding over the spot – basically, a
filling without having to drill – hence, no needles necessary! I
was home within half an hour, in a much happier mood than when I
left.
Since
I was home so soon and able to talk, we decided to go ahead with our
regular podcasts. It was fun getting those done this morning. I tried
a new recipe for chicken at lunch time, and it was a great success.
We enjoyed our walk at the park this afternoon.
Our
little four-year-old whirlwind, unfortunately, did not have a
positive experience with her dental appointment this morning. For
starters, she absolutely hates going to the dentist. Even though they
have a TV mounted on the ceiling and she gets to choose what she
watches, she still wasn't appreciative of her experience. Secondly,
she hates loud noises. So her stress level skyrocketed when they
cleaned her teeth with the power tool. From what I was hearing from
her mom on the phone, I'm not sure there was a really positive
bedside manner from the dentist seeing her today. Her appointment
took most of the morning.
On
top of all that, the poor kid's mom (that would be my older daughter)
was told the Whirlwind has two cavities that need attention. At the
point of the phone call I received this afternoon, I think Mom's
stress level was higher than the Whirlwind's. The consensus at the
dental office is that, given the Whirlwind's anxiety level, they need
to put her under in order to deal with the cavities. That would mean
just one trip to the dentist's office......and no danger of anyone
(Whirlwind or dental people) being injured with a sharp instrument
combined with a stressed-out four-year-old.
Logically,
we know that's the best way to do it – but it's scary to knowingly
have a four-year-old put under for a procedure. I was so glad that I
was here when my daughter called and I had all the time in the world
to talk with her. And she mentioned how nice it was to have me
available when she needed me, instead of having to wait until I got
home from work. You know, being available when the kids or grandkids
(or hubby, or mom) need me is worth more than all the paychecks I've
ever earned!
:) Thanks again, Mom!!! You are an amazing Mom and I hope that I am at least 1/2 as good as you are! Love you and thanks for the ear today, just wish I could lay my head on your shoulder to cry on. :)
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